garfriend
1 week ago
I also struggle with my energy levels. I try to have the mindset that my partner's mom has where rest itself is productive especially when it's healing and recovering. Productivity itself is a scam. Humans aren't meant to hustle even at home.
skep
1 week ago
Are you taking a staycation this week too??? I feel a lot of that—too much to do, much of it self-imposed. Going at my own pace this week.
ghostii
1 week ago
A very relatable read! I constantly worry about time, to the point where i feel bad if I spend time watching TV or playing games because that is time I could have spent on projects
tabf5
1 week ago
I too find myself opting out of many enriching activities if it isn't also a friend hangout OR also leading to some tangible result or thing "of value" that I can share around online. I cannot remember the last time I played a single-player video game alone, comfortable with using time like that
p7uen
1 week ago
I tell my wife I need ISS this weekend. Pretend we're on the International Space Station, nothing gets in or out except for possibly a fast food delivery orbital capsule.
oopsiedoodle
1 week ago
@garfriend I try to tell myself that, but it doesn’t always get through. I used to try to “hustle” all the time. I think it permanently altered my brain, lol.
oopsiedoodle
1 week ago
@skep I am! I’m trying not to have a to-do list, though that never usually works.
oopsiedoodle
1 week ago
@tabf5 Yep, whenever I do things just for me, I feel guilty for needing to do that. Working on just being OK with the fact that I need a lot of alone time.
ratlands
1 week ago
I also found this post very relatable. I always feel a bit like that guy from the Twilight Zone episode who just wants time enough to read (and also to do all my other hobbies), but hopefully without that episode's ending. I hope you enjoy your staycation. Maybe squeeze in some walks through the cemetary.
dicjournal
6 days ago
I hope you enjoy this time off! I am a firm believer in the power of a staycation to reset. Especially what I call a "buffet" style one. Like before I start I set out possible things I might enjoy so I don't even have to THINK when the glorious PTO arrives ^_^
oopsiedoodle
1 week ago
Correcting typos. Also, the furbish phrase of the week is Dah-toh-toh boh-dah tee. Viva la vida.
oopsiedoodle
1 week ago
Few studies have been done on Furby evolution. It's possible Long Furbys are a hybrid form after reproduction with an Earth animal. I'll have to look into it. Thank you for the research topic.
astersarchive
1 week ago
i think long furbies are the result of very intentional selective breeding. their long fragile spines make them struggle to survive and find food in the wild. so like a corgi or a dachshund they rely on humans to feed and take care of the resulting health complications. source i used to be a long furby breeder in 2019.
ghostii
1 week ago
I believe long furbies are actually not related to furbys at all, and that they exemplify convergent evolution. According to some theories, long furbies belong to the Mustelidae species and they share a common ancestor with ferrets
oopsiedoodle
2 weeks ago
tune in next time for 800 words about the first thing I ever bought on amazon
skullhouse
2 weeks ago
I searched my email for in the aeroplane over the sea and I found the cover my high school boyfriend recorded for me as part of an album of love song covers. looked him up and he's out winning awards at the cool film festivals. I guess he was cooler than me then and also now. (I am also old.)
divergentrays
2 weeks ago
I'm 57 and I *also* feel like a perpetual 17 year old. I keep waiting for some kind of magical enlightenment where I don't feel like I'm just faking being an adult.
dicjournal
2 weeks ago
Gawd, I remember being 6 and looking at teens as if they were the sages of all wisdom. Now I'm in my 40s, and the folk in their 30s inspire in me a bit of a protective mom feeling. That being said, I consider many people younger than me to be wiser than I ever was at their age. I mean, I remember putting oil on my skin ON PURPOSE to get a tan, and reading cruddy relationship advice in Seventeen!
oopsiedoodle
2 weeks ago
@skullhouse Damn, that IS cool. Sadly listening to NMH did not result in long-term coolness for me
oopsiedoodle
2 weeks ago
@divergentrays It is sort of comforting that it seems to be like that for everyone. @dicjournal Agree! I have a 12-year-old niece who is very smart about stuff that I was totally naive to at her age. I remember fully believing that an "alien autopsy" photo I saw on the internet was 100% real, lmfao. But my niece is out here lecturing her grandparents to not believe everything they see online 😂
sneekrealm
2 weeks ago
not even the only trashy city in this corner of the world! seen some other surprisingly littery city centres in my event traversals...
oopsiedoodle
2 weeks ago
To be fair, I only noticed trash dunes in one small part of London. Everywhere else had normal amounts of litter
ratlands
2 weeks ago
Rubbish, Primark and Love Island... truly you have fully experienced our culture
oopsiedoodle
2 weeks ago
It was the first time I'd ever heard of Love Island... I was transfixed. and confused. so confused.
loops4
3 weeks ago
That is so cool! It's a small world :-). I haven't set up a guestbook on my site yet, but I should get on that!!
ratlands
3 weeks ago
These are always fun but the quotes from the kids are hilarious. The middle name is very powerful.
miou2192
3 weeks ago
I like my horoscope. I'm claiming it hardcore. There ARE a lot of murders here.
neopetgameboy
3 weeks ago
as a taurus with a summer bucket list that only has a few more items left to cross off, i'm really feeling this!!
tabf5
4 weeks ago
Yes! @worldwideshen's list of everyone's 100Q responses has been so fun to dive through
bignastytruck
4 weeks ago
oo i hadn't seen these at all and this prompted me to look through them, too; these are very fun
i found a photo of one of our hauls: https://oopsiedoodle.com/posts/photos/haul.jpg
It is amazing and somewhat shameful what just gets thrown out.
Before they started locking the Little Caesar's dumpster after they closed I absolutely ate fresh (boxed! right on top!) dumpster pizza.
A lot of places also intentionally destroy whatever they're throwing away. So wasteful
I remember working at Home Goods and my manager destroying things before putting things in the dumpster. Not just home decor, but gourmet honey, english tea, preserves, dainty little tea cookies. It made me sad then, and it still does. idk... kindness is as easy as sharing things one doesn't need anymore
Yes! Their dumpster was actually one of the first we ever checked. Everything broken.